There are a lot of things that get me heated and mad but the one thing that pushes me over the limit is the way guys are and the way they treat girls. Guys think they are higher and more powerful than girls and that they can just make girls feel low and not confident about their self. Well reality check that is not how it works. See guys can be messing around with two or more girls and they are "players" and it's cool to do that. But when girls are just talking to more than one guy no matter if they are friends are not we are classified "whores". The way guys can just leave a girl and break their heart like a shattering glass mirror, and walk away and not care. Like there was nothing ever between them. Now that is something that ticks me off.
Why is it guys run when it gets hard but girls are the ones who tough it out and get hurt in the long run? I was with this guy for a whole year (just recent) and when times got tough he ran. At the beginning of our relationship he told me when things start to slip we will fix it. If we were having problems in our relationship we would fix it. Well right now I am at this point where I am stressed about many thing and I'm having some problems, so when it started getting to tough for him what did he do, he left me broken hearted and a body full of pain. But that's not what hurt me the most. It was the fact we were together a year and he told me he loved me and he would be by my side no matter what. But the minute he left he found someone new just like that. It felt like he thought there was never anything between us. But when he came over the next day to give me the phone I was paying for and all the stuff in a box that was at my house that was his, he put the box down and walked to the door. Before he open the door I asked him why he wasn't taken his stuff, he turned around and just looked at me, the look he gave me was like he was lost and just wanted to run but then he wanted to stay. He turned back around and opened that door and walked away.
Why can guys cheat and play girls but girls talk to guy friends though txt message and we are bad girlfriends? That is a question that runs through my head everyday and I can never find the right answer for it. I mean don't get me wrong there are some girls out there that are just as bad as guy but they at least girls give them reasons. My ex would just take my phone and go though it to see what guys I was talking to. The minute you saw a couple guys numbers he would flip out and start calling me a whore all because he saw I was talking to my guy friends. But see he wouldn't take just a couple of mines to go read the conversions we were having. I mean really they were just normal conversions. But when he checked on me his friends were high fiving him saying" what a player. Wish I could roll like you do." And he would sit there and laugh about it with them. Didn't care that I felt used and hurt that he cheated on me, he just cared about that he was getting high fived for it.
I just don't get why guys act the way they do and hurt girls and just simply not care.
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Friday, October 16, 2009
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Laura
Trust
Don't Always Trust Someone So Quick. I'm The Type of Person Who Gets Attached Way to Fast, I Tend to Believe Lies, Every Single Time. I've Learned That Everyone Is Going to Hurt You at Some Point; Even Your "Best Friends" (Is There Such a Thing As Best Friends?) Those So Called Friends Turn To Screw You Over The Worst! I've Also Learned That If That's What They Want I Will No Longer Try and Make Things Right.
Like This I Thought Things Were Going To Be So Good, I Was Exited To Come Back And See My Friends. Sure The First Couple of Day's Were Great, Then Things Completely Went For the Worst. My Friends Started To Act Shady With Me (Bitchy In A Sort Of Way.) And I Had No Clue Why! They Told Me I Had Changed, I Was Stuck Up, I Guess It's So Easy for People To Blame Others for Their Own Mistakes. But Have They Ever Stopped to Think That Maybe Just Maybe It's Them Who Are To Blame For?
I Have My reasons Why I Can't Trust People Anymore. I Don't Care What Anyone Says. This World Is Basically Surrounded In Lies And I Don't Have To Put Up With that S*** Anymore. One of My Friends, Best Friends, So Close We Called Each Other Best Friends Is Now Going Out With My Ex. No it's Not Jealousy, It Just Bothers Me That She Did That to Me She Knew Everything! Any Friend Knows Better Than To Go Out With A Friends Ex Right? Guess She's Just A Little Bitch and Couldn't Be Straight Forward and Tell Me. I hate them both, they're dead to me.
It Sucks Finding Out Something Like This, I Felt So Betrayed I Wanted to drop to my knees and cry, but at the same time I was so angered I wanted To Scream At Her Ask her Why She Sunk So Low?
"The World Is Based on Trust, if there's no trust you have nothing' something I learned From My Sister.
Don't Always Trust Someone So Quick. I'm The Type of Person Who Gets Attached Way to Fast, I Tend to Believe Lies, Every Single Time. I've Learned That Everyone Is Going to Hurt You at Some Point; Even Your "Best Friends" (Is There Such a Thing As Best Friends?) Those So Called Friends Turn To Screw You Over The Worst! I've Also Learned That If That's What They Want I Will No Longer Try and Make Things Right.
Like This I Thought Things Were Going To Be So Good, I Was Exited To Come Back And See My Friends. Sure The First Couple of Day's Were Great, Then Things Completely Went For the Worst. My Friends Started To Act Shady With Me (Bitchy In A Sort Of Way.) And I Had No Clue Why! They Told Me I Had Changed, I Was Stuck Up, I Guess It's So Easy for People To Blame Others for Their Own Mistakes. But Have They Ever Stopped to Think That Maybe Just Maybe It's Them Who Are To Blame For?
I Have My reasons Why I Can't Trust People Anymore. I Don't Care What Anyone Says. This World Is Basically Surrounded In Lies And I Don't Have To Put Up With that S*** Anymore. One of My Friends, Best Friends, So Close We Called Each Other Best Friends Is Now Going Out With My Ex. No it's Not Jealousy, It Just Bothers Me That She Did That to Me She Knew Everything! Any Friend Knows Better Than To Go Out With A Friends Ex Right? Guess She's Just A Little Bitch and Couldn't Be Straight Forward and Tell Me. I hate them both, they're dead to me.
It Sucks Finding Out Something Like This, I Felt So Betrayed I Wanted to drop to my knees and cry, but at the same time I was so angered I wanted To Scream At Her Ask her Why She Sunk So Low?
"The World Is Based on Trust, if there's no trust you have nothing' something I learned From My Sister.
Kelsey
What ticks me off the most is,
Fakes: The things that make me mad about fakers is feelings or the fake smiles when they are really thinking you're just a stupid or you're an idiot.
Liars: When people lie about their life or things just to sound cooler.
Backstabbers: People that get information off of you just to go tell everyone else starting drama for you and others. Stuck ups: People that act so much better than everyone else.
Rude People: Who have no respect for anyone but themselves? Also don't care to hurts people's
Feelings. Parents: They are just so bossy and stubborn they can't let me have a life. Also it's always there way or no way.
Example of a fake is once I had a friend that I thought I could trust and tell everything to but, after being friends for awhile it turned out that we like the same guy and started fighting. A few days' later people were starting to find out my secrets and things about me that no one knew. I had got very mad I felt used in some ways. She didn't even seem to care if I was hurt by it. I always did so much for her always and she had to do that to me. But I wasn't going to talk things about her because I wanted people to see she's just a bad friend to have. Why do I get so mad over the littlest things in life? Mostly friends, family and boys but, still? Why is it that I let people get to me to make me mad to such levels? Hmmm honestly I don't know.
People say don't get mad if it's not true but how can you not get mad when people are talking things about you? My advice is just to ignore these immature people. If you just mind what you're doing and ignore them they might give up or even get mad that you're not reacting. Make smart choices with the people you hang out with because, picking the wrong friends might put you in bad positions. To me people just need to get over themselves. I think people pick on other people because of problems in their life or their insecure with the way they are and the way they look. People need to be forgiven and there are people you will forget but you need to stay a strong person and move on new people will show up in your life. These are the things I fallow, these are the little reminders I think of when I get upset or mad. People do come and go, you learn from the bad choices, you pick better friends and you stay a strong person.
Fakes: The things that make me mad about fakers is feelings or the fake smiles when they are really thinking you're just a stupid or you're an idiot.
Liars: When people lie about their life or things just to sound cooler.
Backstabbers: People that get information off of you just to go tell everyone else starting drama for you and others. Stuck ups: People that act so much better than everyone else.
Rude People: Who have no respect for anyone but themselves? Also don't care to hurts people's
Feelings. Parents: They are just so bossy and stubborn they can't let me have a life. Also it's always there way or no way.
Example of a fake is once I had a friend that I thought I could trust and tell everything to but, after being friends for awhile it turned out that we like the same guy and started fighting. A few days' later people were starting to find out my secrets and things about me that no one knew. I had got very mad I felt used in some ways. She didn't even seem to care if I was hurt by it. I always did so much for her always and she had to do that to me. But I wasn't going to talk things about her because I wanted people to see she's just a bad friend to have. Why do I get so mad over the littlest things in life? Mostly friends, family and boys but, still? Why is it that I let people get to me to make me mad to such levels? Hmmm honestly I don't know.
People say don't get mad if it's not true but how can you not get mad when people are talking things about you? My advice is just to ignore these immature people. If you just mind what you're doing and ignore them they might give up or even get mad that you're not reacting. Make smart choices with the people you hang out with because, picking the wrong friends might put you in bad positions. To me people just need to get over themselves. I think people pick on other people because of problems in their life or their insecure with the way they are and the way they look. People need to be forgiven and there are people you will forget but you need to stay a strong person and move on new people will show up in your life. These are the things I fallow, these are the little reminders I think of when I get upset or mad. People do come and go, you learn from the bad choices, you pick better friends and you stay a strong person.
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